Buyer’s remorse—the sinking feeling of regret after making a purchase—has always been a challenge in sales. But as more deals are done remotely, without in-person meetings or face-to-face interactions, the risk of buyer’s remorse has grown. With buyers reviewing materials asynchronously, interacting with sales reps virtually, and signing contracts without ever meeting in person, the trust-building process is more fragile than ever.
While this shift to remote selling can be more efficient, it also comes with risks. By leaving buyers to navigate much of their journey alone, we may unintentionally increase their feelings of doubt and regret, leading to lost deals that could have been won with the right approach.
What Does the Research Say About Buyer’s Remorse?
Research provides some interesting insights into buyer behavior:
- Material purchases often lead to regrets of action—buyers feel remorse over what they bought, considering it unnecessary or extravagant.
- Experiential purchases, on the other hand, lead to regrets of inaction—buyers feel they’ve missed out on an opportunity or an experience they should have taken advantage of.
This distinction matters because it highlights the importance of how buyers perceive their investment. When a purchase feels more like an experience and less like a transaction, buyers are less likely to feel regret.
The Key Takeaway: Experience Matters
The focus on experience is crucial. It’s not just about selling a product; it’s about creating an experience that feels valuable, impactful, and memorable for the buyer. In the age of remote selling, this is more important than ever because the human connection—an essential part of the sales experience—can be weakened by the virtual environment.
What Can You Do to Combat Buyer’s Remorse?
To reduce the risk of buyer’s remorse, especially in remote selling, here are some key strategies to help buyers feel more confident and invested in their decision:
1) Give Prospects a Quick Win
A quick win can significantly reduce feelings of uncertainty. By providing immediate value—whether it’s through a free feature, a demo that solves a pain point, or a tangible benefit that shows how your solution works—you help buyers experience the benefits firsthand.
- Focus on Low-Hanging Fruit: What is one simple, yet impactful, element of your product or service that can deliver value right away? Give buyers a reason to feel good about their purchase by showing how quickly they can benefit.
2) Get in Front of Your Prospects—Literally
Virtual selling can only take you so far, especially with larger enterprise deals. While not every interaction needs to be face-to-face, finding opportunities to meet in person, even informally, can strengthen relationships and build trust.
- Increase Regrets of Inaction: When buyers meet with you in person, it humanises the deal. They’re not just investing in a product—they’re investing in you, your team, and your leadership. In-person meetings make it harder for buyers to walk away from the opportunity, increasing the chances of closing the deal.
3) Remember: Buyers Invest in More Than Just Your Solution
When buyers commit to a purchase, they’re not just buying a product or service. They’re investing in the team behind it, the company culture, and the leadership that drives its success. This is particularly important in B2B sales, where relationships and trust play a huge role in long-term success.
- Showcase Your Team and Leadership: Help buyers feel connected to the people behind the product. Whether through meetings, thought leadership, or success stories, highlighting your team’s expertise and values can create a deeper emotional investment for the buyer.
Conclusion: Create Experiences That Build Confidence
Buyer’s remorse can be a deal-killer, but it’s not inevitable. By focusing on creating a meaningful experience for your buyers—whether through quick wins, personal interactions, or building trust in your team—you can reduce regrets of action and encourage buyers to feel more confident in their decisions.
In a world where deals are increasingly done remotely, it’s essential to make buyers feel connected, supported, and excited about their investment. After all, when buyers don’t just purchase a product but also invest in the experience and the people behind it, they’re far less likely to feel remorse and far more likely to become long-term customers.




